For me there was always a slight attraction to certain males. Never really thought much of it I thought I just wasn’t an asshole and was capable of complimenting a man on his appearance. But realized there was more to it.
After a partner introduced me to a couple things, snowballing and pegging, I was a bit more curious. And I started opening my eyes a bit and realized holy shit…maybe I am bi? That was like 5 years ago?
I think the reality of actually experiencing a man would be the real indicator but for now I’m just navigating the thoughts and perving on Reddit