Do most “gay” men actually like other guys or do they just use them for sex?

ive known im bi for a bit and ive never actually dated a man before but I kinda dont want to if its is only for sex. like duh thats a part if it i guess but I dont want that to be the only part. Im jus curious idk if what im saying even makes sense lmao (╥‸╥)

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