Having sex with ex wife’s former friend…

I’m 28 & last year, my now ex wife & I decided to spilt. Things had become unpleasant & she wasn’t very nice to anyone towards the end. This coincided with me questioning my sexuality & my attraction to men.

A few months after the spilt, one of her former friends (a gay male) got in touch with me & we started speaking about everything that went on. We met up a few times & we started talking about what’s next for both of us. The attraction was growing & I think we could both tell what was going on. I had told him about my curiosity/attraction too.

As we continued to meet up, I eventually gave in & kissed him. It was amazing. From there, we did more of this & it has led to us having sex quite regularly. I really like him & the sex is incredible. I’m considering coming out for him. I know it’ll cause tension with my ex wife but this relationship feels different and want to make it work.