Comments on: I got forced into being gay?

By: TouchProfessional650

TouchProfessional650 — Wed, 01 Oct 2025 06:18:30 +0000

Hey bruh I think you were sexually assaulted. It’s cool that you may be curious to pursue same-sex experiences but it shouldn’t be forced on you. That he treated it as a joke was him trying to get you to not take it as seriously as it really is, but what he did was really not cool. I hope that you’re able to process this experience and that you have safe, fun, healthy, and consensual sexual experiences in your future. If you felt you were aroused, that’s normal and fine, the physical aspect is very powerful, but that’s also your body trying to cope with the sexual trauma as well. Just think about the situation and think and let yourself process and feel whatever feelings about it you need to feel

By: angry_areola

angry_areola — Wed, 01 Oct 2025 01:48:15 +0000

You weren't "turned gay", but it sounds like you discovered that you're not straight! I'm just sorry it started with a non-consensual encounter. :/ Just because you ended up liking it and wanting more doesn't make it okay that he forced it. Wishing you many safe, fun, consensual hookups in the future :)

By: Warm_Manufacturer431

Warm_Manufacturer431 — Wed, 01 Oct 2025 01:16:19 +0000

The non-consent is not cool and actually could be a chargeable offense. And as human nature has it, sometimes we are turned on in situations where we are dominant and or dominated.

But that aside, it might be worth exploring it in a consensual way.

By: ThawneInYourSide

ThawneInYourSide — Wed, 01 Oct 2025 01:02:06 +0000

Dude you were raped. And nothing can “turn you gay.” You either are or aren’t. I’m sorry you had that experience.

By: lazygerm

lazygerm — Wed, 01 Oct 2025 00:21:12 +0000

Unfortunately, I don't think it's all that uncommon to discover something about your orientation when you've gone through an SA situation.

A couple of my gay friends in college experienced this, and my first gay experiences had a lot of power imbalances. I would not categorize my experiences now as SA situations; but it was confusing about whether I enjoyed it because I had no choice. Or vice-versa.

If you are troubled, some therapy could be very helpful in trying to unpack your feelings about it.

Otherwise, you could explore these new desires in a safe and consensual manner.

By: RubanTuggin

RubanTuggin — Tue, 30 Sep 2025 22:21:18 +0000

I had a friend do this to me too

By: One-Salamander-550

One-Salamander-550 — Tue, 30 Sep 2025 22:07:14 +0000

Not really related, but for me weed make me "gay" or more gayer i'm bi but in a relationship with a guy he is a bottom and every time i smoke weed i wanna be dominated by a man i wanna be used. for the consent part and being dominated by this guy doesn't really affect what you like or maybe idk but you could try and see if you like it

By: Known_Factor8156

Known_Factor8156 — Tue, 30 Sep 2025 22:06:38 +0000

You can’t be “turned”, but it’s entirely possible you’re bi and the experience awakened that. Or maybe you’re naturally submissive and you associate domination with men?

By: curiousheh

curiousheh — Tue, 30 Sep 2025 21:59:44 +0000

yea umm that's sexual assault and getting aroused is how body cope with trauma

By: bigezycbr

bigezycbr — Tue, 30 Sep 2025 21:58:12 +0000

The “no consent” part is problematic. But don’t dwell on labels. Explore and enjoy - it’s ok to seek pleasure