Also, your attraction to a gender, or lack of it, can be a consequence of societal repression and internalized homophobia. This is a major side effect of Bi-erasure where there are literally no examples in media or society at large (up until very recently) of bi attraction and what that looks and feels like. Not all bi people are attracted to other genders in the same way, intensity, etc. and that can fluctuate over time.

I went from feeling exactly how you feel to feeling attraction outside of sex to some men in some circumstances.

Just listen to what your body is telling you about who you are, rather than trying to tell your body who you want to be.